The Gratitude

The only form of gratitude as a worker or i called it a business partner where we gain better income to support our living is to give the best result for the company. What is best result?

Concerning the safety growth for the company in long term, it is not just to aim target to receive the reward and you can anyhow hide anything dangerous for the company. As a worker or business partner, who also receive goodness from the company, we should repay our company by concerning what business you bring to the company. Is it risk or not? Will it cause the company a loss? Prepare the real information is our responsibility to prevent company from loss.

Besides the company, the trust that we receive from our customers is also a priority. We are in between the company and customers urgencies. We should be able to concern both of them. If there are only company and workers without customers, the business will not happen.

When the company is more concerning about safety, without giving unhealthy return to compete with newbies competitors, you should be glad. Your company is safer than you think.

The competitive work fields are good with a healthy compete and positive supportive condition. The direct positive responses and little attention for better work are being noticed and those are workers great gratitute.

The only reply is to work harder seriously without giving up easily. Just that and the gratitude.

Thank you.

Drink your own healing self antidote

Literally I have a lot of friends, men and women in any ages. Too many of them, sometimes i even want to hide myself not to being seen from people to prevent unnecessary talks. Friends from childhood, schools, college, work fields and society. Positively those are great for my career, i have a lot of connections. That makes no difficulties for me in any kind of job fields.

The past me, i left my house work, my family behind my friends. I joined every invitation from friends, had fun and laughed together. Easily trust on friends without firm consideration or be cautious to them.

Years passed, i grew up and went through a lot of hard times, long before i entered the work fields actually the politic has happened at school times.When everyone said no, i didn’t study at all for the exam, not even opened the book. I said i studied very hard in tears day and night without a pause. But when the exam result was being announced. Everyone got above 80, no study then it’s miracle or luck? The politic which contradict with me has already happened that time where i didn’t realize it.

Then i entered the work field, many other politics follow. The politics happen not just between competitors, in every aspect of life even in love life. Then i asked myself, do you still unwilling to give up? Do you still want to hold a little believe that there are still good people? Be friends, sharing life moments and trust? Do you?

Think it over, have i done anything bad purposely to those people who want me to fall? I treated everyone the same and true, without hoping a repay. Funnier when some of them don’t actually know who you are, but hearing from nowhere then follow to dislike you. Stop being naive!!!

When i was 23, i worked as a frontliner of o a bank. Then i saw an old man about 70-80 perhaps. He always comes alone without companion and does everything himself. I was very simphatized to him that time. My coworkers said that old man doesn’t believe to anyone. He is like that, don’t be surprised.

I am 31 years old by now and i understand why the old man always alone without companion and does everything alone. I am just like him now, i smiled when i recalled back about the old man. I have build a strong and brave independent me and thank goodness that i have the strong self healing power

By the time you decide to be better, success, and great, you need to be ready physically and mentally at all time for what you might meet and face, who you will eliminate in your life for your own peace. When you find out negative people around, don’t doubt to cut the relationship off. If, you can’t cut due to some reasons, at least you make your distance from them. Be cautious and alert.

You may be sad, cry and hurt but don’t do it for long. Heal yourself and talk your problem with God not to human beings. He will listen and give you the wise justice.


I have read many inspiring books, watched many motivational short videos and also personal’s observation. It always advises that do not expect return when you do kindness. Keep going on doing kindness. Give a hundred percent from you and never expect it back. Easy said !!!

You may be hurt, dear !!! A stabbed back, bethrayal, and fakeness are not cool to bear. Do not get yourself into that situation. You may keep building your kindness, you may ask for no return but Add WISDOM In it. Add wisdom into your kindness. Not all people deserve your kindness!!! Go on if you want to fool and hurt yourself and called it a hero like the movie.

Humans are great story tellers, smart people are more than good people. Differentiate it. It is good to be smart but not cunning. When you add wisdom in your kindness, you will help those who really needs help, and not waste your kindness into people who don’t deserve it. Your kindness will be much more valuable and hit the point.

Life ups and downs,we can’t know what is next? Sometimes we are happy, sometimes we meet hard circumstances. All we need to do is do not stop to live the life. But when God has given you precious mind to observe, be rational and logical. Add wisdom into your kindness and you will see the differences.

Can you hear my heart, mom?

You born me this way, the strong perfectionist pervert. You never too worry about me, you know and trust me well. It has made me purposely intend to catch your attention by little action.

I blamed you when you were late sending me to school because of your laundry. I blamed you not coming first to receive my school report when i was the first but you let dad to attend my lil sis and bro school first. I blamed you when you always stand up for my lil brother although he was disturbing me study. I even fasting for a protest!!! I blamed you not permitting me to attend english debate competition then i still forced to join without your permission. I blamed you not to support me when i got the scholarship to Jakarta. All i knew that time was to blame you.

I was busying study and doing my part time job and neglect you a lot. When i was home,you have slept. Till, when i found you were in serious illness. I was blank, doing nothing,unable and think of a suicide. That was too fast, not a month then you were gone. I was 18years old that time. You left me a message “take care of your lil bro and let him finish his school”.

I grew up, married, and being someone’s mom. It was too late for me to understand, to thank you, to repay you, to make you happy. I am able now but you have already gone. I was given a real good sharp memory that i remembered every single moment like a slide of film. Pops up and kills me every year when i pay a visit to you. Our dad birthday is your cremation day. It kills me a lot again.

Sometimes i talk to you in my heart at your altar, i miss you in my mind and heart that i want to tell you everything everyday. I want you to see that we are doing all good. May you rest in peace until the day when we reunion again. Can you hear my heart, mom? I thank you for ever being my mom.

Between Hard Work and Greedy

I had been confused between the word “hard work” and “greedy” for quite a while. Then i doubt myself, do i being categorized as a greedy when i never stop working and i do several business? Anything as long as “the right money from the right way( don’t break the Law and God)” and not crushing my main business i will grab when the chance come by.

I asked some olders about that and one of them said: “greedy is when you being controlled by money. You will do anything without concern to achieve money. You used money as a power,you settled everything even when you are wrong with money not by true wisdom and caused you obsessed by money but when you really need the money, you don’t willing to use it”. Keep collecting and unwillimg to spend even for yourself!!!

While hard work is you controlled the money, you manage the money. You know how to get and use it in the right way. How to devide for family, donation, and so on. Living expenses are getting higher year by year. If you keep sit still and doing nothing, how do you expect to get a better life? Hard work is okay but don’t be greedy and obsessed by money.

Before allowance there is something called choice

Have someone ever so bothered you and ruined your whole day just so complete? If yes, you need to read this. Human are good storytellers, when someone delivers a story, it is your choice to consider whether to believe it or not. You have the right to choose. Yes, if the story is true and how you react to it.

What’s the benefit if you mess up your day just by the small voices from the one you know he is just like that. No matter how mess, angry and even hurt those all never bring any positive benefits to you. It is you that allow all those negative things falling deep down to you.

You may think it is unfair,you didn’t did anything as the story being told, you are sad and furious then you want a fight back. The story never ends when you do so. There may be unpleasant voices but you have the right to choose not to allow them to mess up yourself. Before the allowance there is something called choice. Do not anyhow allow those unpleasant voices ruin your life.

Take the mistakes, learn from it and moving forward. Matter only what is important and positive for you to achieve…

Strong Personality

Building a strong personality in self is necessarry when you want to achieve success in life. Here are some strong personality requirements:

1. Admit own mistakes and learn better from the mistakes.

2. Strong personality sets target, focus , dare to face obstacles, hard work, never run out of brilliant ideas, observe, analyze and cautious.

3. Ignore bad voices, matters what is necessarry to achieve.

4. Hit the prime point, effective, logical, and reasonable.

5. Don’t play tricks on others.

6. They don’t hold grudges, jealousy, and revenge.

7. They forgive.

8. They support those who are in need and weak.

9. They don’t ask for return.

10. They never easily give up on life.