A ❤️ Letter To My Son

You were so little when you were born, i couldn’t forgot the look on your face. The purest gift from God for me to let me guide you become ready in life. What future will be for you? What life challenges you will have to face? And will you strong enough when i am not around?.

Sometimes you may get scold and even a hit, you never like it since you are too small to understand. That’s all are the stages where you will build your “character”. It is not just to getting smart but you need to become a wise and responsible gentleman in the future.

You have my blood in you, all my knowledge and skill will be delivered to you. All your mistakes are mine too.I can sense your maturity in your very young age. That’s a glad for me. My prayers for you in everyday life. I may not the best mom in the world, but will make sure you understand to live in balance. Happy birthday to YOU….

Value Seriously

An old saying says that “A man is known by the company he keeps”. Yes, old sayings are mostly true. Have you ever realized that every single cent you earn is not just from your own single effort? You may be smart, talented, hard working, fast, lucky, bless, etc but without Company and Customers then you are nothing, really. This time i will talk about Company + Customers = YOU. Those who speaks ill of their former companies actually create shame to themselves. You had ever supported your living from those former companies.

You have all the good points of a worker needs, you apply job to a almost bankrupt company and you have less customers, can you yourself with your all good points of a worker create anything big? No. Then what?

After you are in a prospective company, you need to value seriously on your customers, pay serious attention on them. Remember every single cent you earn from the company and customers. It is not just a simple greet of thank you can settle this kind of value. Regard these 2 are as important as yourself. And last just to remind in case you forgot to thank to your God no matter what religion you are, Your God is listening. Much or less you have earn, say your thanks to God in your every prayers before anything else.

Know Your Own Weakness

Who else in this world know you more than yourself? Yes, it is YOU!!! It is important to know what is our own weaknesses where sometimes we just too focus on our strengthness and neglect the weaknesses where it might be a “fatal point”.

Dare to deep analyze yourself, remind and repeat, ask yourself what is your weakness? How? You can start to rewind from past mistakes and failures. Then what?

After you get some of your weaknesses, you need to start correct it, evaluate, or when needed just throw away and leave it. Do not let your laziness overcome your weaknesses, that will overdose yourself to get down more to it. Smile and say goodbye to them.

More if, we have known clearly our own weaknesses and still allow them to be in us, grow and lasting. Stay far away from weaknesses before somebody else notices and fail you in the battle of your life. Be alert and cautious!!!. Nobody can help you if you don’t help yourself.

Yin and Yang

I am not a taoism follower actually but this yin and yang symbol has greatly catch my attention. We can see a black dot inside the white and a white dot inside the black. I knew this symbol since i was a child but didn’t really care or curious about what the meaning of it.

Until one day i realized, it means nobody is perfect. Even in the white has the black dot and not all the black is bad, it has a small white dot in it. Do you get it? Not every good ones are good, they have the bad side and also the bad has the good side.

Nowadays, everyone tries to be good. We speak, act, and behave as good as possible. No ones want to let others see the bad side of themselves. When you try to be real and kind to people and you don’t ask for any return but late after that you realize that they receive your goodness to fool you.

The greediness, the grudges, and the egoism have grown that deep and big. The truth always brings sadness. No matter how many achievements you have, how happy you live the life but still when the real truth of life is reveal ,the sadness come. Sometimes, you really don’t know what else to be sad or hurt? It is very easy to become bad, a blink of eye. But to be a real good human, it is hard.

You will get test after test in life. While in the test, you will have varieties of thought. How about i give up to being a good human being? Or i just pretend not knowing things which happen?.

Seeing back the yin and yang symbol,you will understand that not everyone are real good and not every bad people are real bad. It is why i name this blog into Balancing Life. Get the balance and live well, when it turns harder, help yourself with prayer to the God as your religion teaches. You may sad for a while but don’t do it long. Be wise and keep the live balance.

Life and Knife !!!

A knife will turn blunt after being used for several times. It needs to be resharpened in order to be in use again. What happen when the knife refuses to be resharpened? It can’t be in use and become trash, unusable, blunt, and rust.

Life is also need to be resharpened. People in this world meet variety of problems, when difficulties approach do not panic, give up, or stress. We can’t control life as smooth as we want. Some life trials will happen to sharpen you. We are allow to be sad and hurt but not for a long time. It is very normal when we feel upset as a human being. It means you have the mankind as the God’s creatures.

The knife needs to be resharpened so do you, face the problems, learn from it and analyze. It is no use thinking over a problem which we don’t try to get over it. Can you imagine when life is as smooth as you wish? Will you learn anything in life? Nothing !!!

Problems make us become greater than what we think we can’t. You will not easily down and lost your track, but you will become wiser, more successful and happier. When you can conquer the problems, your life is more meaningful and you are sharpen.

Remember, do not refuse to be sharpened!!!

My best regards from here 🙂

Honesty is good “YES” but not ALWAYS

Life !!! What’s on your mind when you hear the word “life”? How many years have you been in this life? And what have you learn?. Life is the greatest gift from God, it fills by uncountable human beings, living animals, and plants.

In this era, high technologies and well manners are very in need. People compete to be the best, the wisest, and the strongest. We do need honesty to gain trust. People build connections as many as they can.

As the proverb says : ” Honesty is the best policy”!!! Yes, it is. But here i want to tell that honesty is not always good. Why? When you don’t eat the flesh of tigers, it doesn’t mean that tigers won’t eat you. The same here, when you try to be honest and open to everyone, it doesn’t mean that people will also do the same like you. While you keep telling your stories, and others are listening. A luck if you tell to the wise people, but when you don’t you might get into some troubles, really. You won’t know how others think about your honesty. You won’t know how people can manipulate about yourself. You do need to have your own privacy.

I am not telling you to be dishonest, you still need to be honest but be cautious. You don’t need to be honest all about yourself to everyone. Not all the people will value your honesty, perhaps they will laugh at your stupidity while you try to be honest to tell your mistakes. You need to differentiate what is matter to talk and how you keep yourself secure. You don’t need to lie but also don’t need to be so honest to everyone. You must choose wisely who you are talking to and what you are talking about.

People are growing smarter and more, we all need to learn. I am not asking you to be a liar, but you need to choose what to talk when necessary and what you don’t need to talk. Let’s learn smarter!!!





Mistakes !!!

Have you ever done a mistake? I’m pretty sure everyone had. People hate mistakes, afraid of and they will cover up themselves with anything to keep them in a good track. People care for their reputations, care of what other people judge them so they act prettily behind the ugly truth of what they have done.

In life, we do make mistakes whether by purpose or not. The problem is “will it okay for yourself?” Will you forgive yourself? What is fault is fault, we can’t make any excuses to cover the mistakes up. Ask yourself why you let the mistakes happen? Here are some things you need to do when mistakes happen:

  • Admit to yourself.
  • Truly ask forgiveness from God, pray that you won’t repeat the mistakes, pray that God will lead you to the right path and pass the life tests.
  • Do not blame others, you were not born yesterday so do not anyhow blame your own mistake to others.
  • Take your responsible. It sounds charming but it won’t be easy.
  • Learn from mistakes.
  • Analyze why the mistake happen, know your weaknesses.
  • You must forgive yourself.